One Guarantee in Relationships: You Will Get Hurt

We need to learn the skills which can help us through the hurt so we can recognize when a relationship fracture happens, repair the fracture and train the other person in the relationship how to treat you differently and by doing so it is possible to reduce the amount of hurt that occurs.

It's a fact: relationships hurt. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you can give up on the illusion that you will somehow have a perfect relationship and escape being hurt.

By focusing on this search for the perfect relationship (which does not exist) we can instead focus on real relationships and how to handle the moments which will inevitably come when we do get hurt. We need to learn the skills which can help us through the hurt so we can recognize when a relationship fracture happens, repair the fracture and train the other person in the relationship how to treat you differently and by doing so it is possible to reduce the amount of hurt that occurs (but most likely we will never eliminate it completely.)

We all want our relationships to be like our car. We might get into an accident, a fender bender, every now and then, but all we need to do is bring our car in to the shop, get it fixed, and we're back on the road good as new. Relationships are not exactly like a car, of course, but there are parallels between the two.

For instance, just like the cars we buy, the relationships we build are very valuable to us. We don't want to just throw our relationships away when something goes wrong. We have an investment in our relationships and we value those investments. When someone hurts us deeply we need to learn how to handle that hurt and teach them not to take that action again. You would be amazed at how fast people can learn these skills using the Alive program.

The clients who have learned the skill of how to influence people, teach them to treat them the way they want to be treated, testify that it is one of the most powerful skills they have learned when it comes to impacting the quality of their life.

Do you want greater intimacy with your husband? Do you want your spouse to stop nagging you? What about your boss: would you like him to treat you more fairly? Do you feel as if you have lost influence over your children?

Through the Alive program you can learn the skills you need to influence people to behave differently. Alive can teach you how to increase their respect for you and reduce or eliminate their hurtful behavior toward you.

Alive relationship experts have the experience, the knowledge and the skills to help you, help anyone, change the way they build relationships and find a whole new level of enjoyment and peace as a result.