A
groggy woman turns in her bed and catches a glimpse of the time on her bedside
clock. It is 4:30 a.m. Her teenaged son, who went out last night with friends,
should have been home hours ago. Bolting out of bed, she checks her answering
machine to see if he may have left any messages. There are none.
Terrified
that something may have happened to him, the woman dresses herself and frantically
flips through the phonebook. She stops at the number of the police department
and begins dialing. Hearing someone gingerly turning the handle of the front
door, she hangs up the receiver. Her son has finally returned home.
Overjoyed to see him, she rushes over to hug him.
But when she thinks of how thoughtless he has been, and smells booze and
cigarette smoke on his clothing, she feels a sudden surge of anger. He starts
to apologize, but she interrupts him. He’s grounded for the next six months,
she tells him a trembling voice.
Fear,
joy, anger: such powerful feelings are what we generally think of when we hear
the term “emotion.” Psychologists define emotions as mental responses to
events, circumstances, people, or our own thoughts and memories. They course
through our conscious and unconscious beings at all times, whether at critical
junctures or during seemingly inconsequential moments of our lives.
Biologists tell us that our emotions are rooted
in self-preservation, triggering physiological reactions that enable us to
find food, escape danger and reproduce. For example, fear increases the flow of
blood to the muscles, making it easier to run or take flight, while the love we
display to our offspring ultimately helps to ensure the continuation of our
genes.
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